You may have thought that reverse psychology only works on children, and for the most part this is probably true. However, they still might be some value in this old tactic when it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back.
As hard as it may be to imagine, supporting your ex's decision to leave you can pay dividends. People tend to be skeptical of things that are "too easy". This is where you can make her second guess her decision to leave you. By claiming to "understand her decision", and suggesting that "we both need time away", you can bring a new angle to your breakup.
If she really cares about you, then it is likely she stressed over how to tell you the bad news. By making things easy, you will have turned a negative into a positive - and this will earn you more respect in the long run. But the hardest part is still to come. You have to continue this act, no matter how much it hurts, for as long as it takes. It will take time for her to come around, but she should start to reach out more within a month or so. This is the opening you have to capitalize on.
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