Give Her Space

Is is a natural reaction to want to call your ex girlfriend soon after your breakup. You want to ask for forgiveness, or another chance. Unfortunately, although this seems to be a good strategy, it is one of the worst moves to make.

The period after a breakup is volatile time for both sides. There is a lot of confusion, sadness, and even anger involved. It is best to let things simmer down before you make your move back into her life.

Trying to contact her too early leaves all of your cards on the table. She is now in control, and you have nothing else do except call her again. Instead of calling, try to reflect on your relationship to figure out why it was successful in the beginning, and what has changed. This will help you form a plan to get her back.