Earn the Trust of Your Ex Girlfriend

Once you start talking to your ex girlfriend again you should be careful not to slip into some of your old bad habits. No matter how confident you feel about getting back together, the first month or two after the break up is a fragile time. Earning back her trust is something that will take time but LOSING her trust can happen in matter of seconds.

Here are some essential tips for winning back the trust that was lost during your break up...

1. Give Her Your Full Attention
This might sound obvious but a lot of guys blow it right from the beginning. Look at her when she is talking. Try to understand her viewpoint and give feedback during your conversations. Don't even think about looking at the other women who walk by when you are together! Seriously, pretend you have blinders on that block everything from your line of sight except for her face.  

2. For Better or For Worse
The point here is recognize the highs and lows of your ex's life. If she has a good day then do something special to celebrate the moment. If she is facing a difficult challenge then you need to be the one she leans on. Can I tell you a secret? 90% of time all you have to do is listen. A good way to begin is to say "tell me everything."  

3. Tell Her Why You Love Her
It is easy to say "I love you" but sharing why has a bigger impact. Women want to know they are making a difference, so it is up to you to make her feel empowered. Are you a better person when she is with you? Tell her why. Has she made your life better in a special way? Tell her about it. Women need more from a relationship than just someone to hang out with. Prove to her that your time together is much more.

Trust is an essential component of lasting love. However, it does not grow without some help. Use this tips to shine some light on the special connection you have together.