Confidence is Key

Trying to win back love requires a good game plan, but is also requires a sense of confidence. Even the most detailed strategy will do you no good if you fail to carry it out.

Most people recognize some of the reasons why their ex left them. They are willing to make changes in their life, but they never get the chance because they let their lack of confidence stand in the way. They are either afraid to approach their ex, or they clam-up when talking to them. This not only sends the wrong signals, but it also eliminates any chance they have of winning them back.

Even though it is difficult to deal with a break up, you have to approach things with a positive demeanor. Think of the reasons why you are a good person and use them to market yourself. Once you have learned to accept yourself, you will be come more confident. This confidence will be apparent to everyone you deal with...including your ex girlfriend.

Don't be hesitant to make your move. Ignore all of the negative things that your mind tries to tell you. You were good enough to be her boyfriend in the past, and the new "confident you" is an even better catch now. Let her see your confidence and you will reap the rewards.